Facial Expressiveness
Facial expressions carry meaning
that is determined by situations and relationships. For instance, in American
culture the smile is typically an expression of pleasure. Yet it also has other
functions. A woman’s smile at a police officer does not carry the same meaning
as the smile she gives to a young child. A smile may show affection, convey
politeness, or disguise true feelings. It also is a source of confusionn across
cultures. For examples, many people in Russia consider smiling a strangers in
public to be unusual and even suspicious behavior. Yet many Americans smile
freely at stranger in public places (although this is loss common in big
cities). Some Russians believe that Americans smile in the wrong places; some
Americans believe that Russians don’t smile enough. In Southeast Asian
cultures, a smile is frequently used to cover emotional pain or embarrassment.
Vietnamese people may tell the sad story of how they had to leave their country
but end the story with a smile.
Our faces reveal emotions and
attitudes, but we should not attempt to “read” people from another culture as
we would “read” someone from our own cultures. The fact that members of one
culture do not express their emotions as openly as do members of another does
not mean that they do not experience emotions. Rather, there are cultural restraints
on the amount of nonverbal expressiveness permitted. For example, in public and
in formal situations many Japanese do not show their emotions as freely as
Americans do. More privately and with friends, Japanese and Americans seem to
show their emotions similarly. Many teachers in the United State have a
difficult time knowing whether their Japanese students understand and enjoy
their lessons. The American teacher is looking for more facial responsiveness
than what the Japanese student is comfortable with in the classroom situation.
It
is difficult to generalize about Americans and facial expresiveness because of
individual and ethnic differences in the United state. People from certain
ethnic backgrounds in the United State tend to be more facially expressive than
others. The key, is to try not to judge people whose ways of showing emotion
are different. If we judge according to our own cultural norms, we may make the
mistake of “reading” the other person incorrectly.

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